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Parenting Advice from a Family Coach
Family coach Martin Sievers discusses common challenges faced by parents of young children, offering advice on sleep training, managing difficult behaviors, and maintaining a healthy family dynamic.
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Germany
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Geburtshaus Hamburg
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- What is Sievers' recommendation for dealing with sleepless nights?
- A good division of labor between caretakers is crucial, especially during sleepless nights. For example, the father could take on nighttime soothing while the mother nurses, allowing for more rest for both.
- How does Sievers explain children's outbursts of anger and inconsolability?
- Children's displays of anger and inconsolability around 18 months are part of their developmental journey toward autonomy. Parents should acknowledge these feelings, offering reassurance and understanding.
- What advice does Sievers give regarding family dynamics and decision making?
- Parents should be decisive in their approach, clarifying who is in charge. Children thrive with consistent guidance, not conflicting directives from both parents.
- What is a common issue that Martin Sievers observes among parents of young children?
- Many parents overly cater to their children's needs, neglecting their own well-being. This often leads to burnout and an inability to meet basic personal needs.
- What is Sievers' perspective on the balance between responsive parenting and parental well-being?
- While modern parenting emphasizes responsiveness, it's essential to balance attending to the child's needs with the parent's own needs. Ignoring parental needs ultimately compromises the well-being of both parent and child.